BDSM is a combination of different sexual preferences . The acronym BDSM stands for bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), and sadism and masochism (S&M). Within BDSM different fantasies and power relations are brought to reality. This often takes the form of a role play in which one submits and one person takes control. This is always done by mutual consent. Despite the fact that BDSM consists of separate parts, they have many similarities with each other. Someone who does BDSM does not have to participate in all disciplines immediately. We have briefly explained the different disciplines for you below. Bondage & Discipline Bondage and discipline are related to limiting freedom of movement and exercising control. You exercise this control with different bondage toys. For example, you can tie your submissive with a bondage rope , hand or ankle cuffs or a bondage harness . In addition, bondage is aimed at stimulating the senses of your submissive. You do this, for example, by using a bondage mask . By taking away one sense, the others are amplified. Sadism & Masochism Sadism and machochism is SM that focuses on pain. A sadist is someone who enjoys hurting someone . Machochism is quite the opposite. If you're a machochist, you like to be in pain . We have several BDSM articles for you to use for both disciplines. For example, you can 'play doctor' with a speculum , a pinwheel or a dilator . With these products you can undergo pain in different ways. For example, a speculum is another word for a duckbill and a dilator is used to stimulate the urethra of a man or woman.

What different BDSM toys are there?

Below we briefly discuss the different BDSM toys from this category. Bondage toys Bondage toys are used to restrict the submissive 's freedom of movement . Various toys can be used for this, such as bondage rope , tape or collars . The bondage toys make it possible to tie someone to an object such as a table or bed. But it is also possible to attach different body parts to each other. Denying the view - by means of a eye mask - is also common in bondage play. By obscuring the view, the other senses are sharpened , which can provide a more intense experience of the bondage game. Chastity Chastity is a form of sexual abstinence where the submissive is not allowed to have an orgasm or an erection. There are various toys that can be used to stop the man or woman from having an orgasm. The most famous example of a chastity toy is the chastity belt . This garment can be worn by both men and women and prevents contact with the sex. The wearer can no longer give in to his or her sexual desires . Often the toys are locked by the Dominant with a lock. This determines when the garment may be removed. The discharge is often great when the toy is eventually allowed to be removed. Chastity is all about power and impotence and is therefore a popular toy within the BDSM world. In addition to the chastity toys, you will also find a number of toys in the chastity category that can seize the genitals of the man. The ball stretchers , ball crushers and ball splitters enclose the man's scrotum with the intention of stretching, tormenting or delaying orgasm. Cuffs With the help of cuffs the partner / sub can be secured and thus deprived of his or her freedom of movement. Cuffs are mainly used for bondage and discipline , because the Dominant gains control over the sub. There are different types of cuffs with which you can tie your partner or sub. There are cuffs for hands, ankles, thighs and models that you can attach to the bed. Frequently used materials are metal, leather and satin. SM toys Unlike bondage toys, for example, SM toys focus on the sadomasochistic side of BDSM. Sadomasochism is a sexual experience in which pleasure is obtained from undergoing pain (masochism) and inflicting pain (sadism). The Dominant can use different SM toys to tease, punish or torture the submissive when he / she is tied up. When the body is (gradually) pushed to the limit, substances such as adrenaline and endorphins are produced. This not only helps to suppress the pain but also makes the submissive feel blissful. If you have little or no experience with these types of toys, it is wise to start slowly . The more innocent toys - such as ticklers , SM candles and nipple - from this category can be used to tease the submissive and provide the body with the necessary impulses. Toys such as the whips , paddles and pinwheels are intended to punish the submissive and provide more intense stimulation. Because it can sometimes be intense, the toys are made in such a way that they can take a beating. Extensive use is made of sustainable materials such as leather, metal and latex. Vacuum pumps Within BDSM, so-called vacuum pumps is also widely used. These pumps are used to vacuum various erogenous zones - such as the nipples, vagina and penis. For example, vacuuming the penis ensures a firm and long-lasting erection. These toys are often used by men with erection problems for this reason. In addition, there are also pumps that can be put on the nipples, vagina or breasts and increase blood circulation and sensitivity here . If you as a woman are looking for fuller labia, a vaginal pump can also offer a solution. Fetish clothing Fetish clothing is made of the materials lacquer, leather, latex or wetlook. Various exciting fetish outfits are available for both men and women . These clothes often have a dominant and erotic look and are very popular within the BDSM scene. Within BDSM there are many people with a preference for latex or leather, for example. They enjoy the look and feel of the material. What is BDSM? All disciplines explained! Let's take a closer look at the appeal of BDSM for couples and its basics. We are happy to share our knowledge about exactly what BDSM is and why couples find it interesting to get started with this. The best BDSM products for beginners There are plenty of products available for BDSM beginners to start with. On our page we have made a selection of the best BDSM products for starters . With this you can get to know the basics of the world of BDSM and get off to a good start. BDSM 10 step plan for beginners For beginners in the world of BDSM, we have prepared a practical guide, a 10-step plan for BDSM beginners , with which you can learn in a calm way about the different disciplines and become familiar with this world.

Which one should I choose?

BONDAGE TOYS I WANT / SEARCH Try.. Silence someone One ball gag or bit gag Tie someone up Bondage rope , bondage tape Connecting multiple body parts Hogties , bondage chains , bondage harness To obscure the view Bondage mask , blindfold Someone leash BDSM collars Spread the arms or legs Spreader bars Uncovering the intimate parts of her Labia spreader S/M TOYS I WANT / SEARCH Try.. Stimulating the urethra Penis plug , dilator Making the nipples more sensitive Nipple clamps A toy for a doctor's game Speculum Toy to torment the submissive Pinwheel Apply current stimulation Electrosex Temperature play SM candles Vivid and realistic solo sex Sex machine CUFFS I WANT / SEARCH Try.. Cuffs that do not leave marks on the wrist Plush cuffs Cuffs that can be adjusted Adjustable handcuffs A bondage set that also contains cuffs Bondage set for beginners Soft cuffs that I can attach to anything Satin cuffs Soft cuffs that I can tie myself Satin cuffs Cuffs of good quality material Leather cuffs Cuffs with a fetish look Leather cuffs Cuffs with which I can practice suspension bondage Suspension cuffs Adjustable cuffs as part of a complete set Adjustable fascia set Cuffs that close well and leave their mark Metal cuffs

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BDSM toys for everyone who wants to make it even more exciting in the bedroom! Tie up your submissive with bondage rope, ankle cuffs or handcuffs and show how dominant you can be.

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